1. Change routines.
Whatever happened to wake up, go to work, 11:00 eat burrito, 2:30 call you that he's on his way home, play battlefield 2 on the computer, greet you when you get home from work? If something doesn't fit his daily routines, or if it seems that lately everything is unpredictable, you might want to pay more attention. Well sometimes, we do something different to be spontaneous, but if it happens regularly, it's time to wake up.
2. More conscious of his looks.
New haircut, smells like he showered a bottle of Hugo Boss, shaves more than he regularly does, tie perfectly in place... you get the picture! Taking good care of your appearance is important. But if it happened all too sudden, then think twice. If you know your partner very well, and you know he's not the type who's conscious about his looks, then there's a chance there might be something else than just looking good.
3. Loses interest in sex.
Thrice a week, became twice then once. Or if you're lucky, twice a month? There are other factors that causes him to lose his libido. Stress can be one of them, lack of variety, or unresolved problem. If his attitude at work hasn't changed, and he's active in every aspect of his life... then there might be a chance he's getting it elsewhere.
4. Coming home late.
Has he been spending more late nights at work than he normally does? When you call him, have you been getting more of his voicemails lately? It's possible that the workplace has been very busy and it requires him to do overtime. But if he doesn't return your calls or worse, if you call the office and you get an answering machine saying "Sorry, the office is now closed.." then something's fishy darling.
5. Clam up or acting distant.
Does he sit down and comfort you and give you the reassurance you need? Or is he trying to brush you off calling you psycho? you be the judge but remember, he might clam up for different issues so don't blame or attack him. Talk with love and handle it maturely.
6. Too Sweet like honey.
Although this is what every woman's wish, if he's been acting too affectionate, surrounding you with all the love that it feels suffocating, then he might be sugarcoating something. You've been together for years, and everything was comfortable, or let's say "normal." Both are laid back, you know where the two of you stand in each other's lives, so once in a while we do appreciate the attention and the flowers, it gets creepy when he's all charged up and romantic... like he has to prove his point.
7. The obvious.
When he gets home and you hug him and see a strand of blonde hair on his blazer, his underwear flipped to side B, unknown numbers and sweet text messages on the cellphone, flirting at myspace or craigslist, etc. You might not like what you see, but to see is to believe.. Ta dahhhh!
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